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Modern women demand too much from virtuous women.

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Aly Dee
May 15, 2023
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Women on social media often cry out for a more favorable aesthetic and description of modern womanhood and femininity because, often, the degeneracy is highlighted in today's discourse surrounding intergender dynamics. However, if you think more critically, you can see they ask for a positive narrative without personal contribution or sacrifice. They want women to look good as a whole without engaging in more virtuous behavior themselves. This is an entitled sentiment.

You do not see a comprehensive view of femininity regarding modern women because the virtuous women to source the content from are few and far between.

  • What percentage of the American female population is married?

  • What percentage of those women have children? (With their husbands?)

  • What percentage of those wives and mothers are exuberant to be so?

  • What percentage of joyful wives and mothers have children and husbands who would proudly vouch for their household contribution?

  • Of those women, how many are looking to pour into the cup of the world AND their offspring?

Under those metrics, those women are a significant minority of the population. Yet degenerate single and childless women1 demand that THOSE women contribute to discourse while simultaneously shaming those noble women for their life choices. Modern women ask for positive feminine representation yet bite the women who can present this perspective to the public.

🎵 Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved. 🎵

It is a thankless and low return on investment for that minority of the female population to spread their message and methods to the dominant population. Those exemplary matronly figures are wise to invest in their children over the culture as their children are their true legacy. They cannot save the world and rightfully prioritize their children over globohomo.

To the matrons who go out of their way to fight the culture war outside the home, I cannot thank you enough!

If women want less female degeneracy portrayed, they need to be the change they want to see in the world. Right-wing/Conservative female social media personalities are not exempt from this critique. How dare they attempt to shame other young women for their sexual history, marital status, and motherhood status without walking the walk they talk. Hypocrisy abounds with many social media brands. Right-wing spinsters must put their sexual agency and ovaries on the line if they expect anyone to take their moral superiority message seriously—rules for thee, but not for me.

Otherwise, they would do their best to speak on what they know to be objectively true. They can discuss the breakdown of the nuclear family without calling on other women to do what they are unwilling to.

Yes, you look like a whole clown being a Sexy Solid 10/10 Boss Babe at 30 and crying about how you cannot find a quality man all the while admonishing feminism. If that’s you, here is a link for a pair of shoes you should add to your wardrobe: https://a.co/d/abVq5Au

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