I like you less off the pill...
For women who get the "ick" after hormonal contraception cessation. Fempill #3
The man you will be attracted to while your body is "simulating pregnancy" through hormonal contraception use (estrogen and progestin) is different than the man you would be attracted to if your body were operating at an accurate baseline without hormonal contraception use.
This is why single women should not be on contraception. Without it, you can choose a mate better because you have more consequences for a wrong choice and because your body is searching for a biologically optimal mate while functioning correctly.
If you're on the pill, you're damaging your "picker."
Imagine you marry a man on birth control like the good girl and wife society says you should be. Then, when it's time to have babies, you get off the pill.
Suddenly, maybe he's not cute to you anymore. Perhaps he's downright horrendous, unattractive, smells terrible, and appears weak to you afterward. You don't know why you think like this now that the "right" time has come for babies.
Is it because of the hormonal birth control? We don't know. It's not a stupid hypothesis.
It alters a woman's hormones and may influence her mate choice by making her more likely to choose a male similar to herself in the major histocompatibility (MHC) genes. (Ex: more feminine in biological markers and genetically similar to you). It changes how women smell men, altering their primal instincts when searching for a mate.
Don't f*ck with nature.
Get off the pill.
You'll get a better boyfriend out of it if you use your instincts wisely.
Read more here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2605820/